Children are far better at adapting to situations than adults and they will recognize what their parents can and cannot do very quickly. They still require a lot of attention and care though and this can be very tiring for a parent who is already dealing with the fatigue of arthritis.

Play and Activites

Probably the most enjoyable part of parenting, for both parent and child, is play but it can be physically demanding. Small things like fixing hand rails to the wall so you can get up and down off the floor easier or creating a raised play area, like a settee (as long as your child cannot fall off), can make a big difference to how you feel as you play with your child.

Although physical activity, like running around, is very important for children, there are plenty of other games that you can enjoy too, such as singing, listening to music, talking, watching TV, reading, board games and telling stories.

School

Getting your children ready for school on time can be exhausting for any parent so preparing as many things as possible the night before, such as packed lunches, will reduce the rush in the morning time. Keep in mind that children of parents with a condition like arthritis generally tend to be more resourceful and independent so it is not unusual if they begin to do things for themselves at a younger age than most.

Organising a rota or car pool with parents of your child's school friends is a great time saver in the mornings also. But even if you are not able to take the kids to school yourself, you may be able to offer help in another way. Talking to other parents and teachers about your condition will help them support your child.

Teens

Teenagers are well-known for their rebellious attitudes towards their parents and this can often be a source of disagreement. Almost all parents find it difficult to strike the balance between giving their child extra independence and continuing to provide guardianship. A child that has been very helpful in primary school may start making life as difficult for you when they reach secondary school. This can be hard to accept, but is a natural part of growing up.

It is important to remember that every family is different and parents may also find that their child treats their condition with more sympathy and compassion as they become old enough to understand it better.